It’s common people ask first in a conversation at times.i normally respond and say I am a bit older and they are Gods smack and compliment me, if I told them I am 26 some will say you look older than that, oh? How rude and demoralising I feel so awful l must try to use garlic cream on my face so they can stay away.the young ones don’t believe me and often claim I am a liar, it’s common they say you look like in my thirtys and some say 40 and some say other numbers, from now on I will shake their hands and say my name is blah blah blah and if anyone ask agsin I will pick a random number or tell them I am 10.0000 yrs old
Life is not a numbers game it’s accepting others as others will accept you, that way no one gets hurt
No one is judged .the older generation is the cause of this amd make the younger generation insecure and with out a future.and may have sucidal tendencies and find the weakest link in the family and pass the blame on to them which I copped for most of my life.
Sometimes in life parents have to let go to let their child go out in the world to build a future for themselves. for the sake of their children’s future and their grandchildren.it’s not the children’s fault it’s the parents who demoralising them in their growing years which can cause suicide of young people today.
So remember always be kind and nice to others if an older generation baby boomers try and make you feel embarrassed and weak, you can walk away and tell them, mind your own business it’s not your problem. I am grown up don’t treat me like a baby.keep it up and I will leave and never coming back till you respect my values.be strong be resilient, if you have to tell your parents that tell them where you are coming from, they have to understand your situation in where you are coming from.
And if they Betray you like my parents and family did,and I was the weakest link, tell them in how you feel walk away and start a new life for yourself if your parents and family don’t support your needs.
You have a right to cut ties from family and move on to other better pastures and start agsin,
You don’t have to put up with it. Parents have to stop forcing their own insecurities and failures on to the waeakest link on their children and making them feel vulnerable.and to demoralising them into submisdion
The same applies for jobs who ever you talk to always ask how old you are. That way they can judge you and tell you in a awkward way way in making excuses of not employing you,age discrimination is very common in the work place and it’s the age bracket where it could ruin your life.
even the younger market don’t want older people in the work place because they are too old and that is More common than ever in the job market as well the arts and entertainment industry.in some cases this only happens in theatre rather in the acting industry, some modelling agency’s do have certain standards about age and want young Good looking fresh youthful faces and full of energy,but they might not supply the work you want.
What is the secret to aging always put your health and well being first than anything else than money or family Why you have to learn to be a survivor and stand on your own two feet in this world 🌎
and why some have grey hairs and going bald looking old before your time for a start I don’t drink for one reason it’s bad for you it destroys the liver over time with smoking with it forms dry patches and destroys icklings in your skin stem cells on the skin to dry and cause the skin to fade creating faded skin and it breaks down follicles in the skin and causing cancer
Leonard Nimoy smoked when he was a kid and it catches up with you as you age and Leonard Nimoy said once only he gave up he would be still here today I miss him dearly one of my favourite actors.
I want to stay around for a long time,but I also have to be careful everyday as many said I look good for my age and clear skin, my Aunty lived to 100 yrs and now still going once told me and still resonates today
Don’t worry about the future it will work out itself.that is what stress does to the body it’s stress that kills us and we smoke and drink to get out of our doldrums and self pity and find ansews that fills us with doubt and fear
In the end you have to have faith to get you through it that will make you stronger and a survivor
Keep well everyone it will be alright our future is saved it’s up to all of us to make that choice or not
In the times of troubles we are living in now,more than ever we must not give up the fight,what concerns me the most it’s not the number that scares us it’s the aging body that we ignore and don’t do anything about it.
And blame the Number rather having a healthy abundant body filled will natural elements that the body needs,
Once upon a time in the renown person and Noah lived over 600 yrs back in those days there were not any processed foods we have today in the 21st century.
Keep well everyone and look after your health you come first